People Change, Life Goes On
I used to have a “best friend”, and her name was Cynthia. She was more than a friend I considered her a sister. She was the greatest person ever, so I thought. We did everything together, told each other everything, and we knew each other like the palm of our hands. It was funny because I would have done anything for her, and I do mean ANYTHING. My mom would even get jealous because I would rather be with Cindy, then with anyone else including my family. She even said that one day I was going to regret it, and that there is no such thing as a best friend one day she will turn against you. It did not matter to me. We still did everything together we had the same routine as always. Then came Ana came into the picture, she had moved near our neighborhood. Ana and Cindy started hanging out more and more, and I was just on the side. They would go out partying together, and I was never invited anymore. It bothered me because Ana had just met her, and I on the other hand had known her since we were four. Soon we grew very apart, and it was if I did not know who she was anymore. She started getting into so much trouble, and she got kicked out of middle school for starting a fight. She was a stranger to me. I had to deal with it, but it really bothered me. The most shocking thing that happened between us was that she snitched on me. We all make mistakes when we were younger, but to me that day she meant nothing. One day Cindy, her sister, and I were at Wal-Mart; and yea this is going to sound bad but I got caught stealing. Cindy wanted make up and so did I, so we figured we were not going to get caught. We put some mascaras inside our purse, but to my surprise we were being followed by some undercover Wal-Mart employees. When we were leaving he stopped us, he asked to follow so we did. Cindy said she had nothing to do with it, and it was all my fault. I looked at her, and at that point I felt like slapping her so hard. I still remember saying, “really Cindy, really”. She just looked away and said it was me. Our parents picked us up, and I did not speak to her then. I mean it would have been fine if I had taken the blame, but she just put me on the spot without even saying I am sorry or anything. She betrayed me, and a “best friend” would have never done that to anyone. Then I found out that what she would tell Ana everything I would say to Cindy. To this day we talk because me and her other sisters are close to each other, but I will NEVER EVER trust that girl again.
Wow that really really sucks. I also had a "best friend" she got a boyfriend that her parents didnt approve of and I would cover for her so she can see him, she met his best friends grilfriend and we grew apart. Best friends for almost 9 years and then it was like nothing. It hurts and it sucks big time.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like a terrible falling out. I guess sometimes people just go in different paths even if they used to do everything together.
ReplyDeleteIt just shows you some people change for the worst. I've had similar situations with some of my friends.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear that , but you are a strong person for moving on and doing better .
ReplyDeleteI know that feeling, when you dont excpect someone to do something or you think "they would never do that." then they turn on you, it very dissapointing.
ReplyDeleteIt's sad some people change for the bad and not the good. But keep your head up and keeping moving foward.
ReplyDeleteWow! That sucks and i am sorry to hear that. Sometimes we have to be put in situations like that to realize who has your back and who doesn't.
ReplyDeleteThats how you figure out who is real.
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard to lose a best friend, but better you find out now rather then later.
ReplyDeleteloosing friends is hard especially if they been your friend for so long.
ReplyDeleteit is sad to realize how much your friend has changed but i think you will find others good friends
ReplyDeleteFriends come and go and hopefully you find another close friend you can count on when you have a problem.
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